Comment 1 if you were pushed. 2 if you were trusted. 🎓

# One question for every Asian household No judgment, just the truth. Growing up, which one were you? 你是被推着长大,还是被信任着长大? **Comment 1** — I was pushed. High standards, little room to choose. 被推:高标准,少选择。 **Comment 2** — I was trusted. Standards AND room to own my path. 被信任:有标准,也有空间。 I will read every reply. Because the whole 亚美会 question is right here: **can a kid be excellent AND independent?** 孩子能既优秀又独立吗? My bet: it is not the pushing or the trusting alone. It is whether the child ends up **owning their own record.** 关键是,孩子最后有没有拥有自己的记录。 Tell me your 1 or your 2. 说出你的 1 或 2。